Relationships

Relationships are a big part of our lives. They influence and shape the way we think, feel and live our lives. We have relationships with God, family, friends, and acquaintances. They are the foundation of our existence. Some relationships are good for us and others unhealthy. Some last a lifetime, while others are but a moment. Some practice the art of relating to themselves. We seek and pursue relationships. Each one offers an opportunity to embrace and accept life on life terms with a sense of humility and hope.
Relationships,
Relation ships
Relating ships
We are ships in search of relating.

Communication

Communication is a valuable life skill. The success of communication comes from being a good talker and an even better listener. Good manners, respectful language, strong eye contact, and honesty are elements of a good communicator. Be concise, clear and never bring up the past. Focus on the current topic being discussed. Always offer a positive viewpoint. Remember there are no problems only challenges. Avoid using the word "Problem". It creates negative energy and the listener will have difficulties hearing what you are saying. Do not use the same energy that created the so called, "Problem" when discussing the solution. Only love and a win-win mindset will create a healthy resolution. My father often said, "You cannot listen if you are talking". So when listening, be quiet and focus on the person who is talking. Remember hearing is not the same as listening. Listening requires respect and genuine interest in what is being said. Master communication skills and you will greatly improve the quality of your relationships and life.

Believe You Are

You are what you believe you are.
If you believe you can, everything is possible.
If you believe you can’t, then you have already defeated yourself.
If you believe in yourself, the potential is unlimited.
If you do not believe in yourself, failure is your destiny.
Believe you are, and you will be.

— Professor Brannon Beliso